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Stop the excuses

STOP THE EXCUSES

Dr. Wayne W. Dyer is one of the most famous and respected self-help teachers in the world. In his recent book STOP THE EXCUSES he examines closely how our thoughts, feelings and behaviours cause us to act as we do and how they can be changed to provide inspiration, encouragement and a vital system for our self – esteem. He categorically states that YOU CAN CHANGE AND LIVE YOUR LIFE HOW YOU WANT – just stop the excuses!

The following are some of the most common excuses which we give if we are unable to undertake or carry a work from start to finish. Something within us is holding back and that is one of the reason we are unable to enjoy our life at the highest level of success, happiness and health. These are the MIND VIRUSES which Wayne Dyer calls it which has to be decimated in order to achieve excellence in life. These viruses in the form of doubt, fear & inhabitations have to be dispelled which has been imbedded in our thoughts, actions and behaviours. This can be done only by unlearning the old habits which one has inculcated over a period of time and learn new learning which shall pave way for success and accomplishment.

Along with the common excuses, Wayne Dyer has given affirmations for each excuse which will assist you in making a conscious effort to encourage yourself to elevate your beliefs unquestionably!

1.      It will be difficult: I have the ability to accomplish any task I set my mind to with ease and comfort.

2.      It’s going to be risky: Being myself involves no risks. It is my ultimate truth, and I live it fearlessly.

3.      It will take a long time: I have infinite patience when it comes to fulfilling my destiny.

4.      There will be family drama: I would rather be loathed for who I am than loved for who I am not.

5.      I don’t deserve it: I am a Divine creation, a piece of God. Therefore, I cannot be undeserving.

6.      It’s not my nature: My essential nature is perfect and faultless. It is to this nature that I return.

7.      I can’t afford it: I am connected to an unlimited source of abundance.

8.      No one will help me: The right circumstances and the right people are already here and will show up on time.

9.      It has never happened before: I am willing to attract all that I desire, beginning here and now.

10.  I’m not strong enough: I have access to unlimited assistance. My strength comes from my connection to my Source of being.

11.  I’m not smart enough: I am a creation of the Divine mind; all is perfect, and I am genius in my own right.   

12.  I’m too old (or not old enough): I am an infinite being. The age of my body has no bearing on what I do or who I am.

13.  The rules won’t let me: I live my life according to Divine rules.

14.  It’s too big: I think only about what I can do now. By thinking small, I accomplish great things.

15.  I don’t have the energy: I feel passionately about my life, and this passion fills me with excitement and energy.

16.  It’s my personal family history: I live in the present moment by being grateful for all of my life experiences as a child.

17.  I’m too busy: As I unclutter my life, I free myself to answer the callings of my soul.

18.  I’m too scared: I can accomplish anything I put my mind to, because I know that I am never along.

Compiled by Iyer Subramanian. E Mail: iyerpdkgnm@yahoo.com

About the Author

My name is Iyer Subramanian. My qualifications are as under. Bachelor of Arts, Diploma in Personnel Management and Industrial Relations, Diploma in Labor Laws & Labor Welfare, Diploma in HRM, Diploma in Training & Development.

I have around 25 years of experience in HR and write for Express Hospitality, Hospitalitybiz, Business Manager regularly on HR.